SithLord777 wrote:Yes, what you are saying is true. However, it is also equally true that to make discussion easier, it would help if it were acknowledged that keeping so called gay marriage from being legal does not keep people from marrying. It simply keeps people from inherently always marrying who they want to marry. There are other such limits on marriage. One cannot marry their own sibling or their parent. In some states, one cannot marry their first cousin. In all states, one cannot marry more than one person legally. One cannot marry people legally who are below a certain age. There are limits on marriage. In fact, the government really aproves who can marry by issuing a marriage license, which they don't have to do. What is more, while the other examples of marriage listed are specifically illegal, gay marriage is not. In other words, no one gets put in jail for a gay marriage, but you will get put in jail for marrying your sister or for marrying more than one person. So a lot of the arguments in favor of gay marriage rely on exaggeration and are inherently political.
This cuts to the nub of it in my opinion.
This particularly rankles in terms of legal rights.
Gay couples want the same inheritance rights/tax breaks as married couples.
Ok.
But I want the same inheritance rights/ tax breaks as married couples with my mum. In fact everyone who lives with someone else in a life long commited relationship is equally worthy of this tax break as any gay couple.
I don't see why the act of gay loving making should morally infer this upon them.
Outside of that I would prefer to see the institution of marriage to be an issue between the church involved and the people involved. It's no one elses business.
There is an American chap on another forum I used to discuss this with.
He wanted to marry a gay lover who he met at his gay church.
As long as this didn't make him a first class citisen and me and my mum second class citisens, I consider this to be great.
A wedding is about confirming your commitment in front of your peers. It's a social bond that adds peer pressure to keeping your commitment.
Getting married for tax reasons? Piss off.