As for marriage between homosexuals I just don't think it should apply.
Why should it not apply?
That said I wouldn't be adverse to some other "legal union" between individuals of the same sex, however I disagree with most of you in that I think it should be really hard to get married and even tougher to get divorced. I say this with the idea that marriage is supposed to be a vow between two people who love each other. A vow to be true to that person no matter what. If people don't want or are too shallow to grasp this then they shouldn't get married.
What do you mean by hard to get married and tougher to get divorced? I don't see how you can connect this with denying the right to have one's relationship legally recognised because one is in a same sex relationship. I don't know why it is difficult for a heterosexual couple to get married. I can see divorce being difficult, but maybe you could clarify exactly what you are getting at with this point?
You seem to be wanting to deny marriage to homosexuals because you have discursively concluded that as 'marriage is supposed to be a vow between two people who love each other' and 'a vow to be true to that person no matter what' that homosexuals are not capable of maintaining this sort of relationship? It also seems you are assuming that homosexuals are shallow or cannot grasp the concept of marriage as a committment? I sense that the promiscuous gay/lesbian stereotype is behind this.
If this type of arrangement is undesirable then perhaps there should be some other type of union that is considered temporary from the beginning. " I vow to be true until something better comes along" or something like that.
Are you speaking generally or of a specifically homosexual union?
Children should be raised with a mother and father.
Why? And if this is your position, then what does this mean for single parents or one parent families? Should divorce/separation be banned?
There's no way the argument about mixing genders holds water.It is an argument that favors the parents and not the child. "I want a child and by god I'll find a way to justify that" I feel it is an opportunity cost issue.
You say the argument about 'mixing genders' (I am assuming you are referring to what I posted above) does not hold water, but you haven't actually addressed the points I made about this. Instead, you have projected what
you think the point is rather than actually addressing the argument. I said that it is easier and more beneficial
for children to have two parents. I don't think that these need be two parents of the same sex.
If you choose to be homosexual (and dont give me that genetics thing) the opportunity cost is that you give up kids. You cant have your cake and eat it too.
I don't tell you what you can and cannot say in response, and I would appreciate it if you would extend me the same courtesy. I don't believe homosexuality is a choice, and even if it were a choice, you have not explained why this should prevent someone, or a couple, who is homosexual from raising happy, secure children.
That being said the reason I said "for the most part" is if the potential parents prove themselves capable and for instance, the only other alternative is to leave the child in an orphange or careening through foster parents, a homosexual who prove themselves to be stable (that is they will pledge to be together for the child's life as a minor) then some consideration should be given to them.
I see what you are getting at now, but you have not explained why this should or should not be something that applies to only to homosexual parents? There are hundreds of thousands of heterosexual relationships that have produced children and have broken down.